Besa Radio: Karina Pasian - ‘Slow Motion’
If your following me on Twitter you know that last night I was ranting about guys that don’t know how to control themselves around women that don’t want to give it up right away, and that if they was to simply tell the truth, and be up front about things they would get the panties a lot faster. So since my Twitter buddies enjoyed it so much I thought I would post it on here and have yall tell me what you think. ENJOY
When will men realize that women get more turned on with stimulating conversation then u rubbing on our titties and asking for sex. Like how the f**k is that shit a damn turn on, what are u still in high school??? I’ma need you to peep game, and stimulate my brain. Whatever the case is, as soon and I realize you cant control yourself like a big boy should be able to, I cant f**k with u for a little bit. If you want to take me to a movie, or out to eat. COOL but, anything like chillin at your house or my house is all kinds of out of the question, cause you don’t know how to act.
Fellas, honestly. If you hit up a girl and you just want to f**k… BE HONEST! You will get the panties a lot faster that way because she will respect you more for it as long as you don’t come at her all crazy, ALSO if she’s not down, you will be able to save on lotion for the night because you wouldn’t have gotten blue balls since your hyper a** don’t know how to control yourself and thought that she would be down to fuck.. I’m sorry but that’s a hot mess.
If we are chillin and just cuddling don’t f**ken ask me if I want to have sex because CLEARLY if I wanted to my hand would be down your pants and you wouldn’t have to be trying to guide my hand down there to throw hints… never the less WHY WOULD U WANT TO HAVE TO DO THAT?? Why would you want to have to MAKE a girl get horny or CONVINCE her to want to have sex with you.. its like your begging.. JUST F**KEN SAD! Don’t no women want a man that’s that damn eager to where its as if he’s begging for sex “baby please just this one time” LIKE HOW DO YOU SOUND? DESPERATE! that’s how you sound and a hot mess at that. All I’m saying is stop begging for the pussy and just WAIT, hell she gone want to give it to u sooner if you chill the f**k out.
And don’t f**ken get me started on mofos that try to make you feel bad about not wanting sex, because that’s straight up bafoonish! Guys are forever talking about HOE THIS and HOE THAT but the moment a girl wana keep her legs closed you got a damn issue… ummm about that I’ma need yall to make up your damn minds because either you want a easy b**ch are you want a bitch that you have to work for who hasn’t been with all your homies and some. Like even if you just wana f**k, wouldn’t you want to just f**k a chick that you know isn’t ran threw??? Hell if I was a guy I wouldn’t want no ran threw ass pussy…THATS NASTY!
The point of my rant is, just because a girl doesn’t want to f**k on the first night it doesn’t mean never unless she says “I will never have sex with you we are just friends” it just means not right now and when it happens you both should automatically want it.
I’m going to end this post with a poem that I wrote called ‘Mental Orgasm’ I don’t care what anyone says, its just something sexy about a man that can turn you on with his words and keep me engaged in conversation that makes me think one more levels then just one:
Drive me crazy with laughter of pure joy, and warm conversation. Dive deep into my g-spot and make me wet when you touch my finger tips. Fulfill my deepest fantasy as you fill my body with words of “I only wana be with you”. Make my body sticky with simple efforts of commitment. Give me passionate convulsions when you tell me “I love you”. Keep me weak at the knees by making it so I’m never lonely. Seduce me with essence of your mind and never your body. Take me to a place of no return when we embrace and then make my body scream with lust when you stimulate my brain. Keep me coming back for more with your wisdom that makes my body tingle and my mind never dwindle. While you keep loving me up and down with the simplicity of you being you.” [-by NayBesa]
Anywho’s ladies and gents please weigh in on this topic. Why do you think some men want to beg for it. Because personally I be DAMNED if I’m begging a man to lay on top of me. I don’t think I could live with myself after.